With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, women have had their say on what the biggest Tinder turn-offs are! These Tinder faux pas are guaranteed to turn your carefully curated profile into swipe-left material.
A new study by casino experts at Rainbet has analyzed recent survey data to determine the biggest Tinder turn-offs as voted by women – so if you’re serious about making a good first impression this Valentine’s Day, make sure to avoid these common blunders.
1. ‘No Photos of Yourself’
Ranking first as the biggest turn-off for women is having ‘No photos of yourself’. When it comes to dating sites, first impressions matter, and a profile without pictures leaves women wondering if you’re even real. For many, a lack of photos screams “fake” or “not serious,” so make sure to upload some clear, authentic shots of yourself if you’re serious about matching someone.
Women across most regions of the US, including Gen X, Millennials and Gen Zs were all in agreement that having ‘no photos of yourself’ is the biggest tinder turn-off.
- 2. ‘Your Bio Is Too Cocky’
For most women confidence is an attractive trait, but arrogance is not. When writing your bio, you should keep it honest, but also stay humble – listing your achievements and preferences can be interesting and attractive but there’s a fine line between self-confidence and being boastful, nobody likes people who reek of self-importance.
- 3. “I Can’t See Your Face”
Profiles filled with shadowy, blurry, or distant photos can be frustrating and often misconstrued as you having something to hide. Although personality should be one of the key factors when dating, physical attraction plays a huge role in dating apps, so make sure your photos give a clear view of your face.
‘I can’t see your face’ was the most voted Tinder turn-off for women on the West Coast of America, as well as the second highest for international voters.
4. “Using Vulgar Pick-Up Lines”
No matter your intentions, starting a conversation with a rude or explicit one-liner is a surefire way to get unmatched. Maybe it sounded great when you pitched it to your friends at the bar, but don’t expect a similar reception when using Tinder.
5. “Being Mean Under the Guise of Honesty”
Backhanded compliments, such as commenting negatively on someone’s photos or personality, won’t win you any points on dating websites and instead make you come across as rude or insincere, even if this wasn’t your intention.
6. “Flaunting Your Wealth”
If money is your most appealing trait, then maybe you need to reassess before jumping into the world of dating. Boasting about money — whether it’s in your bio or your photos, can actually come across as quite insecure and unappealing. At the end of the day, women are looking for a connection, not a balance sheet.
7. “Only Posting Group Photos”
Hiding away in large group photos can also be seen as a rather insecure move. You could even be setting yourself up for disappointment here, especially if your match finds your friend more attractive. Who’s really got time for Where’s Waldo anyway? SWIPE.
Baby boomers found ‘only posting group photos’ to be the biggest Tinder turn-off overall.
8. “Poor Grammar and Spelling”
I meen this won shud be obvius write?! WRONG.
Poor grammar and spelling can suggest carelessness and lack of effort and can be one of the biggest detractors when trying to find a date on Tinder. Taking the time to proofread your messages to ensure they are easy to understand can make a big difference when trying to secure a match.
9. “Over-Messaging or Getting Clingy”
Dating can often be a form of escapism for a lot of people and clinginess and over-messaging can feel overwhelming for some. Play it cool and give conversations time to breathe.
10. “Deceptive or Overly Edited Photos”
Let’s be honest, we’ve all seen Catfish before… If you have any intention of finding a connection on any dating platform, your match is going to find out eventually. The solution is simple – just be yourself!
Gabriele Asaro, Head of Research at Rainbet commented on the study:
“Creating a standout Tinder profile is all about authenticity and balance.
“This data highlights the importance of being genuine and self-aware online. Clear, authentic photos and a well-written bio showcase confidence without veering into arrogance, and avoiding over-the-top displays of wealth or edited images can help build trust.
“The key takeaway? Women are looking for a connection, not a curated persona. By staying true to yourself and steering clear of these common turn-offs, you’re much more likely to turn swipes into meaningful matches this Valentine’s Day.”
